If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, you are not alone. At Petals in the Ashes, we believe every survivor deserves the support, compassion, and resources needed to regain their safety, independence, and peace of mind. Healing from abuse is a journey, and Petals in the Ashes is here to walk alongside you, offering guidance, strength, and hope. Whether you're seeking emergency shelter, legal advocacy, or emotional support, the resources below are here to help you take that first step toward freedom. 🌱

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Immediate Help – Call Now

If you are in immediate danger, please call 911 or your local emergency services. Your safety is our top priority.

For confidential support, reach out to these national helplines:

• National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-7233 (SAFE)

• Text: "START" to 88788 for help via text.📱

National Resources

No matter where you are in the country, these organizations provide immediate assistance and long-term support:

• National Domestic Violence Hotline: This hotline offers 24/7 confidential support, guiding you through safety planning, referring you to shelters, and exploring legal options.

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  • 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)

• National Coalition Against Domestic Violence (NCADV): Empowering survivors with advocacy, education, and public policy to break the cycle of abuse.

• The Hotline: 24/7 support for survivors, with assistance on safety planning, shelters, and legal resources.

Regional Resources and Shelters

Looking for assistance close to home? Petals in the Ashes is not only about sharing survivor stories, but also about connecting you with the right local resources. Select your region to find shelters, legal advocates, and other essential services:

• Northeast
  New York – NYC Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-621-HOPE (4673)
  Massachusetts – List of Services by Massachusetts County
  Pennsylvania – Pennsylvania Coalition Against Domestic Violence

• Midwest
  Illinois – Illinois Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-877-863-6338
  Michigan – Michigan Coalition Against Domestic and Sexual Violence
  Ohio – Ohio Domestic Violence Network

• South
  Texas – Texas Council on Family Violence and Texas Advocacy Project
  Florida – Florida Coalition Against Domestic Violence
  Georgia – Georgia Coalition Against Domestic Violence

• West
  California – California Partnership to End Domestic Violence
  Washington – Washington State Coalition Against Domestic Violence
  Oregon – Oregon Coalition Against Domestic and Sexual Violence

Find an Advocate

Support from a trained advocate can make all the difference. Advocates are available to help you with:

• Safety planning 🔒

• Finding a safe shelter 🏠

• Navigating legal resources ⚖️

• Emotional support and counseling 💜

• Connecting to community resources 🌱

Reach Out Now:

Find an Advocate Near You
Text/Call: 1-800-799-7233 for confidential, 24/7 support.

Emergency Shelters

If you need to leave your home for immediate safety, shelters are available to provide a safe place to stay. They offer shelter, food, emotional support, and assistance with relocation and other urgent needs.

Find Shelter Near You:
Use the National Domestic Violence Hotline's Shelter Search Tool
Call 1-800-799-7233 to be connected with local shelters.

Legal Resources

You have the right to live without fear. Legal resources are here to help you protect yourself. Whether you need help with filing a restraining order or navigating custody issues, legal advocacy services can support you through the process. ⚖️

• National Center on Domestic and Sexual Violence: Provides legal resources for survivors.

• Your Local Legal Aid Office: Many regions offer free legal services for survivors.

How You Can Stay Safe

Planning to leave an abusive situation? Follow these essential safety steps to protect yourself:

• Create a Safety Plan: Identify trusted individuals who can support you and have a code word for emergencies.

• Save Important Documents: Keep copies of your identification, financial documents, and medical records, if possible.

• Leave When It's Safe: Prioritize your safety above all else.

You Deserve to Be Safe

Domestic violence is never your fault. Help is available, and at Petals in the Ashes, we are committed to ensuring that you have the support you need to regain your safety, independence, and peace of mind. 💜

Take the First Step:
If you're ready to talk to someone, call 1-800-799-7233 or text "START" to 88788.

You don't have to face this alone. Help is available. Take control of your life and your safety today. 🌸

💜 Remember, at Petals in the Ashes, we believe in the power of healing, rising from the ashes, and reclaiming your life. 🌻