They Say No One Will Believe You. They're Wrong.

Amanda Hill
Jan 22
2 min read

My Voice Mattered. My Truth Set Me Free.

To the incredible advocates who helped me file for protection, ⚖️ represented me in court, and even provided police escorts 🚔 to ensure my safety—thank you. 🙏 You gave me the tools and strength 💪 to reclaim my life.

Exactly one year ago 📅 , I sat on the stand, face-to-face with the man I had poured a decade of my life into. A man I once believed would be my partner, my world, my future. When we met on a blind date, I was 30 and ready to build the life I’d always dreamed of: a loving relationship, a home, a family. But dreams don’t mask red flags 🚩, and I ignored so many, hoping my love and determination could somehow overcome the trauma, 😞 the yelling, 😡 the violence, 🥀 and the uncontrollable rage.

For years, I fought to hold on to that dream, even as he broke me down physically, emotionally, and mentally. Every time I tried to stand up for myself, I was met with shame, manipulation, and gaslighting. I was told no one would believe me, that I was too “unstable” to be taken seriously. He used my vulnerabilities as weapons to keep me silent 🤐 and under control.

But he was wrong.🚫

When I finally found the strength to leave, I discovered something I hadn’t felt in years: hope 🌈.

And with the support of my family, friends, and the incredible domestic violence advocates in Austin, I took a stand—literally. In court, in front of my abuser, I spoke my truth. He tried everything to tear me down—calling me names, spreading lies, painting me as the problem—but I didn’t waver.

Because I knew the truth. 🔑

And the system believed me. 🏛️

To anyone who feels trapped, hopeless, or silenced: there is help. There are people who will fight for you, believe you, and stand with you every step of the way. Leaving was terrifying. Testifying was one of the hardest things I’ve ever done. But it saved my life.

If you’re in a similar situation, please know you are not alone. There is a way out. 💜

💜 Texas Advocacy Project

📞 800-374-HOPE

🌐 texasadvocacyproject.org